Love, Affection, Sexuality, and Pleasure are our birthrights. But we live in a world that mostly sees sexuality through a morally negative lens. We learn (from our parents, our peers, our religion, the popular media, etc.) that our bodies and our sexual and romantic urges are unacceptable, wrong, or just not good enough.  However, as a sex positive coach, I believe we are all entitled to experience love, affection, sexuality, and pleasure in the ways that make the most sense for each of us as individuals. We all have the right to define ourselves, to adopt whatever identity best describes our own sense of ourselves, to love whoever we love, without regard to gender or number.

If you’re struggling with some aspect of your sexuality, gender, or relationship identity or lifestyle, you’ve come to the right place. I offer sexuality, gender, and relationship coaching and consulting, especially to those who fall outside society’s “norms” in these areas. And frankly, that could include almost everyone. One of the most common questions people have about their bodies and their sexuality is, “Am I normal?” I can help you learn to accept yourself, no matter what, as well as how to get your needs met within the context of your identity and the limitations of your particular situation.